Well said Doug!
The rules not only scroll in game but they are listed here on the forums! You take the trouble to ask for an ban to be lifted but still don't acquaint yourself with the rules.
As far as talking smack/disrespecting people, some of our members are junior, and I mean they are young. So while some of the people you deal with here will not have the vocabulary you possess it would be prudent not to disrespect then.
If you are unhappy with an admin please do give us a shout here, list the abuse and the abuser. Telling us that you were upset with an admin is like saying you saw a fish in the ocean.
Please keep in mind that admins are not (for the most part) sitting at home watching the game unfold, they are immersed in the action taking place at the moment. which could mean they are flying a jet/helo or fighting for a flag and don't have time to carry on a collegiate conversation.